Meet Evie :)

Muse * Crush * Companion

NYC’s punk princess =)

Hiii :) I’m Evie =)

Adventure, imagination, creativity, curiosity, playfulness, enthusiasm, tenderness, reverence, sensuality, deep connection, affection, fun & mischief, aliveness =)

It’s so nice to meet you :)

Chances are you’re the type of person who craves depth. Slowing down. Experiencing more. Deeper connection, more presence. Feeling truly alive. I’m blessed to experience a life laced with a sense of magic, adventure, fun and possibility, and I love to share :)

It’s my pleasure to be a guide <3

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Endlessly curious and Ivy League-educated, but far from pretentious - The first thing people tend to notice about me is my playfulness, the mischievous spark in my eyes, my tenderness and warmth, the infectiousness of my laugh and smile.

I believe people come most alive in spaces that are genuinely supportive, encouraging, and fun :) and I find it an immense honor to be invited into someone’s inner world, to co-create an experience of presence, intimacy, catharsis, and joy. Alchemy.

Being a companion is more than a side quest for me - it’s an aspect of my creative calling. Nothing delights me more than entering into a flow state with a creative collaborator, alchemizing the magic and creativity of intimacy in real time.

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sex is creativity. creativity is sex. sex is conversation. conversation is sex

Evie the student

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Forever rebellious and driven (in equal measures πŸ«–), I received my undergraduate degree with highest honors in Sexuality Studies - an interdisciplinary field blending sociology, history, and cultural/media studies (think Esther Perel’s work on eroticism, or Christiane Amanpour’s β€œSex & Love” docuseries, plus a reverence for Janet Jackson & Britney Spears :)). I absolutely love school - reading history for hours in old libraries, learning about art in its historical context, late night conversations with classmates getting deep into ideas.

But my informal education has been even more impactful. I’ve always loved learning & talking about sex, history, intimacy, creativity, and what makes us come alive, and I find that the deepest learning comes through in-person connection - Contextualizing history by hearing the life stories of people who lived it. Learning from people’s ideas, but also learning from their energy, their physical & emotional intelligence. The light they bring to a room.

There’s certain things that can’t be learned from a book - They have to be experienced. The art of intimacy is one of them. And I’ve designed my life in a way to never stop learning that :)

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I have a huge appetite for learning and an equal drive for creative expression.

By day (and sometimes by night too), you can find me apprenticing at recording studios throughout the city, or in school, where I’m pursuing advanced studies in audio engineering + music production. Beyond that my life is wildly creative and adventurous, purposeful and driven. I love what I do, and I do it well :) 

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Living in NYC is a dream for me. The adventure and magic and humanity and spontaneity of the city is endlessly creatively inspiring. I love finding hidden spots together - omakase behind unmarked doors, the best dumplings on hidden side streets. And I never say no to flirting over fancy drinks and a skyline view. I hope to see this city from every angle, hot company preferred. (Eye candy x2, duhβ€¦πŸ‘ΌπŸΌ )

More than anything, I love connecting with people deeply. Skipping the superficial and really letting someone feel seen, appreciated, encouraged, desired. It’s a calling + an honor, and so much fun =)

aliveness <3

I’ve always loved connecting with people who’ve lived a rich life with many twists and turns -I’m told I’m precocious and an old soul, but the #1 quality people comment on about me is my deep sense of aliveness and childlike wonder.

I frequently get butterflies, blush, and light up over the little things - A song with a key change or bridge that gives me chills (talk to me about the magic of Mariah Carey’s β€œFly Like a Bird”, 2:32 - enjoy 😭) or a soundscape that melts me (have you ever walked around the city on a rainy day listening to β€œSometimes” by My Bloody Valentine because…you will feel something). I notice and find the magic in synchronicities, and I delight in the details - Getting weak in the knees at the color blue in Lorna Simpson’s β€œNight Fall” at the Met. Getting excited over the flavor notes at high tea or blushing at your eye contact from across the room at the symphony when we’re playing coy + proper in public :)

I love getting to know the unique sides of people- the qualities you might not get to express as frequently at work or to the outside world. I believe each person is an entire universe, and sometimes you have to step outside of your typical environment and comfort zone to discover yourself in new ways and see the world in a new light. Shake the snow globe :)

craving

We live in an increasingly isolated and alienated society - The loss of third spaces, isolation due to remote work or jobs that require constant travel.

Maybe you’re surrounded by people 24/7, but nobody truly knows you. Maybe you’ve found immense professional success, but had to leave behind pieces of your soul to get there. Many people are touch starved, deeply lonely, and craving connection and intimacy, but stuck about where to begin. Many people feel like they missed formative social experiences during the quarantine, or that they’ve lost confidence with how to connect. There’s certain experiences AI can never fully replace, and irl intimacy - the thrill of feeling both excited & safe next to a person who lights you up - is definitely one of them.

Work/life can require an energy of seriousness & responsibility. Everybody needs and deserves a space to just play.

One of my favorite things about companionship is how nourishing this space can be. A space to build confidence, reconnect to the present moment, laugh + develop intimacy with another person without our phones interrupting the moment.

A space to speak your desires, fears, cravings, dreams out loud in a truly encouraging, nonjudgmental space. To feel alive again.

intimacy as nourishment

Intimacy is a space that requires courage, intention, and vulnerability.

my approach to companionship is more about expansion than performance. more about choose-our-own-adventure than following a societal script. more about slowing everything down: softness, nuance, sensuality, tenderness. just like savoring your favorite meal, i’ve never found that anything tasted better by rushing. and i find that when we slow down, the moment can have a deeper and more long-lasting impact.

I love to leave you with a spark of inspiration and joy, something to smile and blush about :) reconnecting you with desire and yearning, lust for life. and the most mischievous form of motivation.

with the eating comes the appetite :)

you’re actually allowed to have this much fun :)

This is a space to put our phones away, rebuild our attention spans, and remember what it feels like to be fully present because it just feels so good to do so :)

We can go be fancy at the Opera, sneakily holding hands and making flirty eyes amidst ~such proper company, or cuddle in the corner of a moody dive bar, whispering and blushing and giggling about an inside joke only we would understand.

Either way, I’ll be sure to make it clear that you’re the only one in the room I have eyes for. It would be my pleasure πŸ‘ΌπŸΌ.

our adventure starts here <3

I can’t wait to meet you !! :)

xoxo

Evie

Interview w/ Evie =)

Get to know me… :)

personality etc. ~

myers briggs ~ INFJ. i’m an extroverted introvert - warm, affectionate, playful, creative. i have a natural gift for connecting quickly + deeply with new people and putting them at ease (people on airplanes tell me their secrets, etc)

atmosphere/attitude ~sensuality + slowing down, blushing, giggling, + laughing together, hearing you gush + light up about your very favorite things/passions

qualities i find hot in a person: attention to detail, excellent follow-thru, great hygiene, personal style, warmth, respect and playfulness

personal style ~ prep school but punk :). i always dress with intention + love the process of putting together a look. all in the details.

sexuality ~ enthusiastically bisexual/pansexual, and (in queer terminologyβ€”) a switch :)

etc. ~ I have almost every type of synesthesia. it’s one of my favorite things about my mind and informs why i’m so creative and have such a heightened sense of sensuality 🌷

physical details ~

Cherubic face, big expressive honey-brown eyes (doe-eyed πŸ‘ΌπŸΌ), mischievous smile, infectious giggle, playful style, juicy, famous, unforgettable _ _ _ =)

Ethnicity | Born and raised in the U.S. β€” French ancestry

Complexion | Porcelain w/ rosy undertones

Eye color | Caramel/Honey brown

Hair color | Red like a maraschino cherry =)

Age | Late 20s

Height | 5’5

Measurements | 34B Bra, 27” waist, 42 hips. Thick thighs & booty =)

Body type | Toned + athletic + curvy. Slim thick <3 No enhancements.

Piercings | Just my ears

Tattoos | None (but I have a cute collection of temporary tattoos for the right occasions :)

Likes:

dessert ~ mango sticky rice, vegan carrot cake (i am not vegan but i am tragically very allergic to milk/cream, otherwise i would eat brie every day!!)

drink ~ teas ~ i love all tea but especially hibiscus tea (hot or iced or hibiscus bubble tea from Gong Cha - lite ice, 30% sugar).

coffee: espresso (black) or almond iced latte.

in the rare moments I can find non-dairy thai iced tea or mango lassi - i’m happy!! :)

drink drink: i don’t drink alcohol but absolutely love a mocktail, the more over the top (swirly straw, umbrella, maraschino cherry) the better. my simple order is a phony negroni. random but i also love lime juice =)

food ~ i deeply love grilled fish, scallops, omakase. cuisines: i love korean, vietnamese, thai, japanese. i also love a diner breakfast (pancakes, eggs+veggie bacon, diner coffee).

snacks ~ I love olives. soo much. My favorites are kalamata & garlic stuffed green olives. i love fresh fruit - nectarines, berries, mango, pomegranate, papaya, ripe peaches, watermelon and i love being introduced to fruits that are new to me

flowers ~ ranunculus, orchids. i love a bodega bouquet (carnations, roses, tulips - flowers really delight me), and I love to nurture my apartment botanical garden :) you can send living plant/flower gifts to me here.

Adventure, imagination, creativity, curiosity, playfulness, enthusiasm, tenderness, reverence, sensuality, deep connection, affection, fun & mischief, aliveness =)

date spots ~ spending hours in the national gallery in D.C. and the Met in nyc. the cloisters. the symphony at carnegie hall, or classical music in a cathedral. ornate libraries (my bucket list), botanical gardens, old cathedrals with stained glass & incense, dollhouse museums & places that feel like dollhouses (Boiserie from the HΓ΄tel de Varengeville at the Met for ex, swoon), old diners & secret cocktail bars with moody lighting where we can sit next to each other and be mischievous :) anywhere with a city view way up high

places i want to visit ~ tokyo is #1. libraries, castles & cathedrals in europe (any and all). and i have a wish to see linkin park on tour in madrid, spain in june 2026 :)

favorite albums/music: deftones (white pony, private music); linkin park (hybrid theory); team sleep (s/t); pinkpantheress (to hell with it); janet jackson (the velvet rope, all for you); the strokes (is this it); the miseducation of lauryn hill, george clanton (slide); brandy (full moon, never say never)

clipse, fleshwater, fontaines dc, malkit singh, sza, ciara, my bloody valentine

and i’m learning about classical music. teach me, i am your student =)

favorite tv shows/movies: romeo+juliet (1996), i may destroy you, sorry to bother you, birdman, nausicaa of the valley of the wind, kiki’s delivery service, spirited away, (studio ghibli in general) josie and the pussycats.

i love dark comedies/dramedies with a surreal twist, colorful cinematography/animation, docuseries + period pieces. i really wish i was into horror but i am soo sensitive and just can’t watch super violent films/shows! i loveee watching music documentaries/filmed concerts + interviews or anything that explores an artist’s creative process ❣️

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evie’s philosophies on intimacy, companionship, sexuality, and feeling more alive <3